That sounds sensible, but I don't actually have any jealousy. My brain doesn't do that. I think it's related to the fact that I've *never*, even in monogamous relationships or friendships, been the kind of person who worries if you don't call. I just figure you'll show up when you're ready. I have no idea how I could manufacture jealousy (though I suppose I could fake it.)

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Right up until this year I'd have said the exact same thing about not feeling jealousy. Then there was this one guy that just tweaked a weird button in my brain and I suddenly felt all "silver-backed Gorilla." It was the weirdest feeling!

But I would say there's definitely a difference between worrying if someone doesn't call and jealousy.

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