The Watchtower of Destruction: The Ferrett's Journal - A Spoonful Of Jealous Makes The Poly Go ‘Round
A Spoonful Of Jealous Makes The Poly Go ‘Round|
hmm, I myself can't see any good in jealousy and am a bit mystified by the fact that most people are kinda with you, at least a little on "no jealousy at all means you don't care". But I have rarely had to deal with anything going on in actually front of me (one of my rules was always "not in front of me") ... but I DO know that out of sight is out of mind and under those circumstances I am genuinely unbothered.
I get what's driving your feeling, "I start to think that I’m interchangeable in your life, a nice option that you’d get by without". NO-ONE (to me) is interchangeable, not in any role in my life - I suppose I maybe understimate people's ability to think that, should stress that I do not, that I appreciate them for their individual and unique wonderfulness.