The Watchtower of Destruction: The Ferrett's Journal - A Spoonful Of Jealous Makes The Poly Go ‘Round
A Spoonful Of Jealous Makes The Poly Go ‘Round|
In the early years of being poly, I occasionally did say stuff like this to my wife. What she said was: "Sorry, I can't give that to you. That's not the way I express how I care. Is that a dealbreaker for you?" And after much wrestling with that and other issues, I decided it wasn't. But yeah, I can relate to what you're saying.
Edited at 2012-02-13 10:48 pm (UTC)