I finally watched the video and found it really disturbing. This guy really reminds me of my Dad. Clearly she rants that way because he rants that way. Gini's right that's normal, clearly they both do it. I suspect her list of her responsibilities is more accurate then his. He's immature, and angry, chances are he's painting her in the worst possible light and downplaying what she's said so people will validate his reaction. He insults her, he threatens her, he publicly humiliates her, he doesn't respect her privacy and destroys her stuff. I'm unclear why he's worthy of respect. Sure he may deserve some respect as her father, but given the way he treats her he's worn that out long ago.